Buttons are often thought of as tiny things that keep
clothes intact. Once lost, you buy another and your outfit is seamless again. If
you take a closer look, it is the small threads that connect and tie everything
together. Your fiancé is your button that ties your life together and makes
everything harmonious. Incorporating them into your wedding is a whimsical way
to show your connection. Following are a
few ways how to use them from beginning to end:
Save the date: Because they are cheap, you could use a
different one to enclose each card and, once returned, sew them on to the tie
that holds your bouquet together. It’s a fantastic way to make all your guests
Backdrops: It’s likely that no wedding you’ve been to
had button banners. The variety in color, shape and size make it easy to sew
and hang them behind the altar for a unique alternative as you take your vows.
Bouquets: Of course, you can have a button bouquet as
you walk down the aisle in re flowers. If your mom, grandmother or anyone in your
husband to be’s family sewed, using their collection would make it extra
Centerpieces: Whether you fill your vases with buttons or have flowers made of them going from smaller to larger in diversified colors to replicate real flowers, there are artisans who can make anything you envision.
Grand Exit: Rather than throwing rice or flower petals
as you exit after your vows, you can have small bags of buttons at the entrance
of your venue for your guests to toss as you leave as husband and wife.
Aside from showing your personality and doing something different, when you think of what buttons are used for is quite appropriate for your wedding as they sew you together for the rest of your life.
It has been a long-standing tradition that flower girls drop
petals along the aisle prior to the bride’s entrance. Depending on the venue,
real petals may be prohibited and artificial ones are used instead. However, as
customs lessen, many different and unique alternatives are becoming popular. Here
are just a few:
Individual stems: A basket full of individual stemmed
flowers for your flower girl to hand out to either give to your guests seated
at the end of each aisle or to those who are most important to you and your fiancé.
Bubbles: Blowing bubbles is a fun and whimsical way to precede
your entrance. Aside from not being messy, even adults can’t help but smile at
the sight of bubbles and some guests might even try to catch them.
Miniature bouquet: Any little girl given a special job would
be honored and feel even more significant if she was given a small bouquet (one
suitable for her size) that matches yours.
Customized sign: A sign or pennant with a message introducing
you is another clever substitute for petals. Whether it says “Here comes the
bride” or “Introducing Mrs. (insert your new last name), not only will your
guests be surprised but it will be a keepsake to remember your special day.
Paper hearts: Your wedding is a celebration of the love you have built and will continue to grow. Whether made of shades that match your décor or are crafted out of something important to the two of you, they are a wonderful thing to see as you walk down the aisle.
There are many creative and fun things for flower girls to carry.
Not only are they unexpected but each will bring joy to both you and your
guests and be an element that sets your wedding apart.
As part of the saying goes “Something old….,” is a portion of what is representative of good luck for your upcoming nuptials. Whether traditional or modern in nature, many brides follow the superstition if for nothing more than fun.
Your bouquet is a great place to start. Everyone’s grandma
had handkerchiefs (usually handmade) that can be wrapped around your flowers
rather than the typical ribbon tie. Perhaps you have your parents’ or
grandparents’ wedding rings. Even if only borrowing them for the day, you can
secure them in the ribbon. Then you can feel them as you hold your bouquet and they
symbolize the lengthy marriage you long to have.
Every bride looks forward to opulent jewels accenting their
dress on the special day. However, there are many families in which brides have
worn the same jewelry for generations. If that is the case in yours, it would
be very meaningful for you keep up the tradition for them (and likely in
retrospect, for you).
Most girls gather things that are meaningful in some way as
a child. If you’d rather not be so traditional, you can incorporate something
from your collection and, depending upon what it is, find a way to integrate it
into your ceremony or reception.
A great idea is to include your husband. Maybe there is a
pin he could wear on his lapel in place of a boutonniere from someone
meaningful to you both.
While your wedding day is all about you and your fiancé,
it’s hard to discount how meaningful it is for your family to be included. They
are your roots, the epitome of relationships you strive to have and the
beginning of two families joining together.
Choosing a wedding dress is often beyond overwhelming. Girls
grow up with a dream gown in mind only to find out it is not right for their
body type, not at all what they expected and don’t think about cost. There are
many things to consider before you even begin shopping and below are just a
While you want to get the opinion of everyone closest to you, it can make you
preferences get lost in the mix. You can feel perfect in a gown that your mom
doesn’t love, your best friend says doesn’t suit you and you end up feeling
defeated and settling for something you didn’t really want.
dresses are sized differently than clothes so you shouldn’t get caught up in a
number. It’s much better to buy bigger as anything can be taken in than to buy
smaller and put added stress on yourself to lose weight when you already have
enough to focus on.
Expensive dresses with designer names are no better than any other. No one will
know how much you paid and you need to stay within your budget. Additionally,
if you try on an overpriced gown, chances are you might fall in love with it
and then nothing will compare.
soon to be husband likely has an idea of what he wants to see you in but often
it is so far different than what you imagine. It is guaranteed that he will
think you look gorgeous in whatever you choose. Your dress is just that (YOURS)
and you will look more beautiful when you feel comfortable in your choice.
Your wedding dress is likely the most expensive gown you
will ever wear and will keep forever. Go with what your heart tells you is right
regardless of others opinions, or brand names because it is all about you and
it is one of the most important aspects of your big day.
Enjoy the moment before spilling the beans. There
will be plenty of time for everyone to congratulate you, wish you well etc. but
the biggest moment in your life is between you and your fiancé. Spend some time
just cherishing the proposal before announcing it to everyone.
Don’t get lost in your wedding day. So much
time, energy and planning has gone into it that it’s easy to get caught up with
you guests. You don’t want to look back and realize that you didn’t have any
special moments with your new husband.
Be yourself. You would be so upset if upon
reflection, you realized you didn’t have what you wanted because you wanted to
please your guests. It’s YOUR day and
should be exactly how you want it to be. Those who love you will be over the
moon with anything you choose.
Remember that it’s not all about you. Your
fiancé is just as important and what he wants should be considered. Even if it
doesn’t fit into your vision and some grooms don’t have any interest, if he
wants something included, you should make a point to do so.
Communication is very important especially before
you get married. It is the foundation of every relationship and you need to be
open with one another about everything to ensure your marriage will last. If
you don’t start off on a solid foundation, your chances are greatly reduced.
Marriage is so important and it is easy to
get caught up in the moment. However, there are things that need to be
established and considered prior to walking down the aisle (and during your
ceremony) in order to increase the chances of lifelong happiness.
You will get advice from all angles
and some will be fitting and some won’t work for you but there are fundamentals
that set you up for a strong, long lasting marriage.
Going Green: Greenery is taking the place of flowers which are becoming used more as accent pieces. There are many to choose from and most are easy on your budget. Small trees seamlessly work in place of bouquets at the altar. Foliage, including creatively decorated potted plants beautifully decorate pews. Additionally, grasses of all sorts, especially pampas and wheat, add depth and an nontraditional beauty.
Picture Perfect: Although a bit pricey, couples are opting for hand-illustrated invitations. Whether a rendering of your venue or something representative of your relationship, it is exciting to your guests and can be more than worth the investment. You can use the drawing for invitations, save-the-dates, napkins and many other ways that creatively tie everything together flawlessly.
Eat Up: Rather than having buffets or a few plated options, food stations are the latest trend. You can choose all sorts of food (a taco bar, mini-burger stand, sushi station just to name a few). It is easy on the budget, allows guests to graze on smaller bites throughout the reception and ensures that everyone will find something they want.
Touch of Class: Velvet is something new and different. While much is headed toward neutral and minimalist, it throws a touch of elegance into the mix. You can get it in all colors and add an unexpected surprise.
While you always must stay true to yourself, one thing about weddings is that there are always new and interesting things that come each year. Therefore, the ideas are limitless, and you will find things you may have never considered.
Who doesn’t love getting gifts especially when you choose them yourself? Wedding registries might be the only time you get to do so but some things that should be considered when making them are for your guests.
Complete your registry at least six months before your wedding so everyone has time to choose what to get you for not only your big day but engagement parties, showers etc. Also, being such a special gift, invitees don’t want to rush at the last-minute or get you something other than what they’d like because of a time crunch.
Register for enough gifts to give your guests options but don’t go overboard and choose things on a whim you’d never use. The number of items needs to be at least equivalent to your guest count. An easy way to achieve that is by breaking down sets (such as cookware) into individual pieces.
Items of all price ranges should be included even if your guests tend to be generous. You don’t want anyone to feel uncomfortable if gifts are out of their budget. Many smaller ticket items can be creatively combined in fun ways to look more lavish.
Personal items should remain just that and not be included. As much as you may want a new wardrobe for your honeymoon, your registry is not an appropriate place to ask for it. Request things you and your fiancé can share now and in the future. However, there’s no harm in asking for a nice camera to capture the adventures you will share or items to entertain as your lifestyle will be changing.
Thank each person within two weeks of receiving a gift. Although you will be very busy with planning (and life in general), doing so will keep you from getting overwhelmed down the line and ensure that no one falls through the cracks.
Your registry isn’t a secret but never include it on your invitation. Instead, it should be shared by your family, bridal party or wedding website (if you have one). You will appreciate the thought and consideration put into each item you choose as they will last for years to come and remind you of this special time in your life.